By Mary Claire Kendall
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Marlene Dietrich |
It’s so
interesting to see everyone piling on General David H. Petraeus, USA Retired,
now former head of the CIA, for his affair, when the founder of the OSS (the
CIA predecessor organization), “Wild Bill” Donovan,
was known for his affairs, along with so many other high military
officials. Not to mention our presidents. Thomas Jefferson, Franklin
Delano Roosevelt, John F. Kennedy and Bill Clinton leap to mind. Some had
better taste than others. For instance, General James “Jumpin’
Jim” Gavin famously
had an affair with Marlene Dietrich. Bill Clinton... Not so much. (For
more, see The
American Scandal Tour.)
It’s not
something to emulate or aspire to—and obviously Petraeus weakened and should
not have. But, in our sex-drenched culture where women go practically naked and
sex without consequences (biological, that is), is the norm, to suddenly strike
this pose of “Shock, shock, gambling going on in Casablanca” is the height of
hypocrisy and stupidity.
The only
thing I would say is that he showed phenomenally poor judgment in allowing
Paula Broadwell to worm her way into his life. Marlene Dietrich she is not!
But, think of the timing. It was
2006. The Iraq war was at its bloodiest. He was developing the surge plan,
which President George W. Bush would ask him to command in early 2007, and then
a seductive woman came into his orbit. He was a sitting duck—especially if this
area of his life, ahem, was in need of some fortification. And, let’s
face it, for a normal man, that area always needs fortification.
Call it “General Combat Fatigue Syndrome.” He is very attractive. I know from personal
experience interacting with him. But the woman has the main responsibility to
maintain propriety, if the attraction is mutual, and to not do anything that would cause the man to weaken.
For instance, working on a book alone with the General was the height of
imprudence. Sure it might have helped her career, so she thought, but the
primary concern should be protecting your virtue and that of the man, who has
much less control. OK, so, I am hopelessly old-fashioned. But, that’s what I
believe. If you really love a man, you will not put him in a compromising
position.
As for the
FBI investigation, the security issues were overblown, I believe. A West Point
grad and Army reservist is not a national security risk. It was a personal matter, plain
and simple, which is why, my sense is, the matter was not reported to Senate
Intelligence as required by law. But let’s be clear. The investigation began in the summer. The notion that the President, and other key officials in the administration, did not know about it until 5 p.m. the night of the election, strains credulity.
Still,
Petraeus did the right thing in resigning. As the saying goes, God brings good
out of evil. He is very blessed to be in his current position, where he will do
a lot of good.
As for
being the scapegoat for what happened in Benghazi on 9/11, Petraeus is nobody’s fool. He may have shown incredibly poor
judgment vis-à-vis Broadwell, but on national security he’s a pro.
In a short time, in comparison to Benghazi 9/11, L’affaire Petraeus will seem a quaint matter.
Postscript: The Washington
Post had a page one article
on Sunday, November 18, titled “The Fog of More: Do Perks Color Generals’ Expectations” which led with
this quote: “There is something about a sense of
entitlement and of having great power that skews people’s judgment.” – Robert M. Gates, former defense secretary. In response, General Peter Chiarelli said, “I find it
concerning that he and others are not focusing on the effect on our guys of
fighting wars for 11 years. No one was at it longer than Petraeus.”